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It’s imperative that we stop allowing physical, mental, and emotional abuse from indecisive individuals who frequently tell us that they mean well when it’s a rarity for them to ever show it. Keep in mind that physical abuse does not have to involve someone putting their hands on you. The physical abuse that I’m referring to is the actual physical sickness and pain typically associated with undue stress & chaos caused by your “situation.”
These leeches can hold a greater power over you if you let them. They tend to be extremely selfish, charismatic, smooth talking & self serving…only allowing you to be a part of their lives at their convenience. They only give and provide just enough so that you’ll stick around but never do they offer you the fulfillment that you need. These people are typically more of a liability than an asset because they mentally and emotionally drain you while STILL finding a way to convince you that you “brought it on yourself.” They’re the liability because you’re paying for their damage at the expense of your own emotional stability. If you truly want to be free, it’s up to YOU to simply stop. You can’t say that you want or deserve better when your actions aren’t indicative of that. You can’t chastise the relationships of others if the “situation” you’re in could use much of the same. Stop rigging the door for others who claim to love you or have your best interest at heart when their actions don’t line up with the sentiment. Sometimes, the best thing you can do for the safety and sanity of your mind, body, and spirit is to simply stop. Analyze your “situation” for what it is and understand that removing that rig and saying “no more” to that revolving door may be just the thing you need to welcome a more deserving person in your life.